Merry wrote:Find out! Contact him! ask him, call the Governors, write to them - you don't know and nor do I what he is thinking or what he has done - we speculate so much here.
Let us know how you get on, I'm sure it will inspire others to do the same.
So, a man beats up and abuses little children. For over 20 years, he does nothing to make amends. Then, when clear channels are opened up for him to make amends to or apologise to those people, he refuses to take them up. Even when some of his fellow teachers come forward and apologise, he again refuses to. Even when he is personally urged to on this forum (which is regularly monitored by the school so he will be aware) to come forward, he doesn't do so.
And yet according to you, we the victims are the vindictive ones and we should make all the running. Perhaps we should go down on our knees and beg him for an apology?
No, your argument may be well meant but it is absurd.